Why I’m lowering my expectations this Valentine’s Day

by Stacey // February 14, 2018 // No Comments

How’s that for a painfully unromantic Valentine’s post title for you? Bear with me, I promise it isn’t as bad as it sounds. It’s occurred to me recently that when it comes to love, we might all be working towards... Continue reading →

8 Things I’ve learned in 8 Years of Marriage

by Stacey // December 6, 2016 // No Comments

Today is my wedding anniversary. Today, Mr Mess and I have been married for 8 years. Most of you reading today probably haven’t been following me from the start. You probably weren’t here when this blog was started. When it... Continue reading →

Dear Diary: About marriage

by Stacey // June 12, 2016 // No Comments

Tomorrow is my parents’ wedding anniversary. 35 glorious years, eh mum and dad? It hasn’t always been smooth sailing. They’re had their bumps in the road, but most marriages do. In fact, I’m starting to believe that you don’t truly... Continue reading →

Living with anxiety

by Stacey // June 18, 2015 // 1 Comment

My name is Stacey and I have an anxiety disorder. It’s not exactly diagnosed – I did go to the doctors once but I quickly learned you don’t get a certificate of authentication when you have a mental health issue.... Continue reading →